The number of women who are now approaching the fully conscious state already exceeds that of men and will be growing even faster in the years to come. Men may catch up to them in the end, but for some considerable time there will be a gap between the consciousness of men and that of women. Women are regaining the function that is their birthright, and, therefore, comes to them more naturally than it does to men: to be a bridge between the manifested world and the Unmanifested, between physicality and spirit. ~Eckhart Tolle (The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment, p 167)
The very thing that makes you an emotional woman connects you to god. Women are no closer to enlightenment than men, but we have the advantage of being "in touch with our emotions". We feel intuition strongly, and that is our power.
Embrace your power. Know that what you feel is real. Our ability to feel the flow of life makes us natural leaders during this transition to greater consciousness.
You don't have to do anything to lead but be the most brilliant shining example of life you can be. And you do that by letting life live you. Let life guide you. Let your intuition take over. You feel it all day every day. When you follow your intuition, you feel good. And the only thing that matters is how you feel, not what you think.