Thanks Grazia Horwitz!
We all meet people who change our lives in glorious ways. And then we become obsessive, dying to spend more time with them, aching to touch them, horribly disappointed when things don't go according to plan. The crush is a prime illustration of the law of attraction in action!
You think about this girl or guy SO MUCH. You vibrate a feeling of "lack", because you need more of this person in your life. Your crush deepens and you spend more time thinking about the person, getting nervous, and setting up weird rendezvous to spy on them. The result of all this fumbling? You push the person further away from you.
If you can get over her, you can get under her
The trick to moving on with your life, and likely attracting your crush in the process, is to GET OVER HER. Forget about her! Find ANYTHING else to think about!
The easiest way I've found to do this is to realize that everyone is hot if you look for it. All you have to do is find the hotness in everyone, and you'll have a new crush walking through your door every hour! And we all know the only way to get over a crush is to find a new one ;P
Your current emotional state is what you'll attract more of. If you feel super attached to one person (and they don't even know it!), think about what it is they do for you. We are attracted to people who have mastered a certain vibration that we haven't. Is it the vibration of abundance, or health, or vitality, or youth? Figure out what it is you like so much about the person and aim to practice that feeling yourself. When you reach that vibration on your own, you and your crush will attract each other like magnets. Enjoy!